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Awareness

This year, Non-Binary Awareness Week takes place from July 14 to 20, 2025. It is a time to highlight the experiences of non-binary people, challenge misconceptions, and encourage greater understanding across communities.

While the term non-binary has become more familiar in recent years, the experiences and identities of non-binary people are not new. Across cultures and throughout history, people have expressed gender in ways that go beyond the categories of male or female.

What does non-binary mean?

At its simplest, non-binary is a term for gender identities that do not fit strictly into the categories of man or woman. Some non-binary people may feel like a mix of both. Others may feel like neither. Some may identify as gender fluid, agender, bigender or in other ways that reflect their own experiences.

It is important to remember that there is no one way to be non-binary. Just as gender expression varies among men and women, the same is true for non-binary individuals. How someone looks, dresses or expresses themselves does not define their identity.

Why awareness matters

Non-binary people continue to face barriers, including misunderstanding, lack of legal recognition, discrimination and violence. Research and community reports show that many non-binary individuals feel pressure to fit into the binary for safety or acceptance, which can affect mental health and well-being.

Awareness weeks like this one create space for conversation, education and change. They remind us that gender diversity has always existed, and that building inclusive communities means respecting all gender identities.

A part of Canadian history and future

Here in Canada, non-binary people have always been part of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community and the broader social fabric. Many Indigenous cultures have long recognized gender-diverse individuals, including those who identify as Two-Spirit. This term is used by some Indigenous people to reflect a sacred and historical understanding of gender beyond the Western binary.

In recent years, Canada has made progress in recognizing non-binary identities, such as offering gender-neutral markers on identification documents in some provinces and territories. But there is still work to do to ensure that non-binary Canadians have access to safety, healthcare, legal rights and respect.

How can you show support

  • Listen to and amplify non-binary voices
  • Respect people’s names and pronouns
  • Learn about the experiences of non-binary individuals
  • Advocate for inclusive policies and spaces

At the Canadian Pride Historical Society, we believe understanding the past helps build a more inclusive future. Non-Binary Awareness Week is a reminder to listen, learn and support the non-binary community, not just during this week, but as part of how we show respect for one another every day.

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Education Project

Since 2012, International Non-Binary People’s Day has been celebrated every year on July 14th—the date chosen for its placement at the halfway mark between International Women’s Day and International Men’s Day.  The day—and Non-Binary Awareness Week, which begins on the preceding Monday—is a time for us to recognize, celebrate, and uplift non-binary folks around the world, learn about the diverse ways non-binary people move through life, and reaffirm our commitments to advancing the cause of non-binary rights in any way we can.

Non-binary people live their lives all around the world, and have since humanity first came into existence.  References to what we’d now describe as non-binary identities can be found in some of the earliest records we have access to, such as a Sumerian creation myth from the 2nd millennium BCE, where the goddess Ninmah created a being “with no male organ and no female organ.”  In the same Mesopotamian culture, it has also been argued that some of those who worked in the temples of Inanna/Ishtar were also considered to be a ‘third gender,’ neither man nor woman.  In other ancient cultures, such as those from the Greco-Roman world (described in Plato’s Symposium) and northern Thailand, it’s proclaimed that there were three ‘sexes’ present in humanity at its creation.  Across the sea, the cultures of Mesoamerica are likewise thought to have recognized gender as fluid and on a spectrum.  The Maya revered an androgynous deity of maize, as well as a moon goddess who presented as masculine, and anthropologists have claimed that at the height of the Mayan classical period, rulers tended to present themselves as “embodying the entire range of gender possibilities, from the male through the female.”  The Inca likewise placed great importance on the quariwarmi (men-women) who served Chuqui Chinchay, a jaguar deity.

It is no surprise that today, non-binary and ‘third-gender’ identities continue to exist around the globe, with experiences as varied as the colours in a rainbow.  Many Thai people consider kathoeys to be an example of a third gender, though it must be said, not all agree on this definition.    Elsewhere in Southeast Asia, the Bugis people of South Sulawesi, Indonesia, recognize five distinct genders: makkunrai, oroané, calabai, calalai, and bissu, which can be roughly translated as cis women, cis men, trans women, trans men, and androgynous or intersex people, respectively.  Once again, not everyone agrees on the classification of the latter three genders as ‘third genders,’ but it is indisputable that those who identify as such occupy a distinct social role besides ‘man’ or ‘woman.’  Many Polynesian cultures likewise recognize those who are not simply ‘man’ or ‘woman,’ with people such as the māhū of Native Hawaiian and Tahitian cultures, the fakaleiti of Tongan culture, and the fa’afafine of Samoan culture being respected and loved members of their communities.  Hijras in South Asia (also known as aravani and khawaja sira) have long been an integral part of their societies, often living together in well-defined, all-hijra communities with their own unique culture, such as the guru-chela kinship system.

In Canada and Turtle Island (North America) as a whole, the term two-spirit is often used as an umbrella term to describe the vast and varied ways Indigenous people viewed and expressed gender.  It is crucial to note that it is very much an umbrella term, meant for wider audiences, because Indigenous cultures are all unique and all have their terms and concepts in regards to gender.  The term was created over five conferences by several participants, concluding with the Third Annual Inter-tribal Native American, First Nations, Gay and Lesbian American Conference, held in Winnipeg in 1990.  The English term was what was first developed and proposed, although the Ojibwe translation niizh manidoowag was swiftly constructed to honour the peoples whose land the conference was held on.  Michelle Cameron, a two-spirited woman of the Carrier First Nations, wrote that “The term two-spirit is […] an Aboriginal-specific term of resistance to colonization and non-transferable to other cultures. There are several underlying reasons for two-spirited Aboriginals’ desire to distance themselves from the mainstream queer community.”  The writer of this piece is not Indigenous, and thus I doubt my ability to provide a full, accurate, culturally-knowledgeable description of the meaning of the word ‘two-spirit’ to Indigenous people, as well as the identities and cultural concepts it represents.  Therefore, I highly suggest that you seek out the writings and experiences of two-spirit people to truly learn what the term means to them and how it is expressed.

It is extremely important to note, when learning about these various identities and expressions from a Western, English-speaking point of view, that our terminology and understanding of gender and non-binary identities might not be accurate to how the people with these lived experiences will describe themselves.  We must always remember to listen first and foremost to the voices of those whose identities we are discussing, and use whatever terminology and/or labels they ask us to.  Being intersectional and culturally-conscious when discussing these sorts of things is crucial, as is understanding that some things are very hard to translate accurately into English.  If you wish to learn more about the incredible diversity of gender expression and identity that can be found around the world—this article is an incredibly brief overview—once again, I heartily recommend seeking out the voices of those who exist in these identities, as they will be able to give you better insight than I ever could.

The current moment in history can feel quite heavy if you are anywhere in the LGBTQIA+ community, especially if you are trans or non-binary.  There is much that could be said about the legal recognition and rights of non-binary people across the world, and how we need to fight harder than ever to maintain our progress and push it further, but I think we all know that.  Instead, I’ve chosen to leave this piece as a celebration of all the ways non-binary people have existed as themselves across history and around the world, and a reminder that they have always and will always exist.  Hope and community are crucially important, and we must always work together to continue to support and uplift each other, however we can.  This International Non-Binary People’s Day, we take the time to honour all the beautiful diversity that makes humanity special, and remind ourselves of the fact that wherever you are in the world, no matter how you identify or present yourself, you are never alone.

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Awareness

You might have seen June 26 called “LGBT Equality Day” in some articles or social posts and there’s a reason for that. On June 26, 2015, the U.S. Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage across the United States. That ruling (Obergefell v. Hodges) was a major moment in global LGBTQ+ history, and it’s often recognized as a symbolic date for marriage equality. 

But here in Canada, we have our own milestone worth celebrating. 

On July 20, 2005, Canada became the fourth country in the world – and the first outside Europe – to legalize same-sex marriage nationwide. That’s the day our federal Civil Marriage Act received Royal Assent, confirming that same-sex couples across the country had the right to marry, regardless of province or territory. 

That’s why many Canadian advocates observe July 20 as LGBT Equality Day – a moment to reflect on the progress made, the people who led the way, and the work still ahead. 

Getting to that point took decades. In 1969, Canada decriminalized same-sex activity. Through the 1980s and ’90s, activists pushed for anti-discrimination laws, partner recognition, and equal access to benefits. A turning point came in 1995 when the Supreme Court of Canada ruled in Egan v. Canada that sexual orientation was protected under the Charter. By the early 2000s, several provinces had already legalized same-sex marriage through court rulings, paving the way for the federal law. 

July 20 isn’t just about marriage. It marks a broader affirmation of dignity, inclusion, and human rights. But as we know, the fight for equality didn’t end there. Many 2SLGBTQIA+ Canadians, especially trans, racialized, Indigenous, and disabled individuals, continue to face barriers in healthcare, housing, employment, and safety. 

That’s why this day still matters. It reminds us that progress is possible and that preserving and learning from our history helps ensure we don’t leave anyone behind. 

At the Canadian Pride Historical Society, we’re committed to sharing these stories, uplifting the voices that helped shape them, and protecting Canada’s rich and complex 2SLGBTQIA+ history. 

This July 20, take a moment to celebrate Canada’s commitment to equality and consider how we can keep building on it.

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Awareness

On May 30th this year, we commemorate the forty-fourth anniversary of the Pisces Bathhouse Raid, a planned operation by Edmonton’s legal system to arrest Gay men in what was previously a safe space to gather and connect.  The legacy of the raids has had an enduring and long-lasting effect on Edmonton’s 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and we take this day to remember the events and recognize not only how far we’ve come since, but also how far we still have to go. 

Bathhouses have been gathering spaces for 2SLGBTQIA+ Men and masculine-presenting individuals for centuries, with the modern iteration coming into being around the end of the 19th century.  They were used as safe places to meet for companionship of varying forms and were often popular cruising destinations for those who frequented them.  They vary in clientele, expectations of anonymity, services offered, and discretion, but were by and large consistent pillars of the communities they were located within.  Bathhouses could be found in hundreds—if not thousands—of major cities across the globe, and Edmonton, Alberta was no different. 

The Pisces Health Spa, opened in 1978, was by no means the first bathhouse established in the city, but it rapidly became known as the best.  This was in no small part due to the meticulous cleanliness standards kept by manager John Kerr, a choreographer who worked with the drag queens of the Flashback Follies.  This commitment to hygiene was a large part of the exponential growth of the bathhouse’s clientele—at its peak, it counted over two thousand paying members and was by all accounts a beloved institution of the Edmonton 2SLGBTQIA+ community. 

Bathhouses were a refuge in a hostile world, but by no means did that mean the world was ignorant of their existence, and it is unsurprising that in the social climate of the day, raids on bathhouses by law enforcement were recorded as early as the 1900s.  Those unfortunate enough to be caught in these operations could and did face violence, public outings, and legal repercussions, and the spectre of possibility loomed large over everyone who entered what should have been a safe space. 

Canadian law enforcement had been conducting raids on bathhouses since 1964, but it was in February of 1981 that “Operation Soap”—the raid of four bathhouses on the same night—would lead to the mass arrest of three hundred and six people under laws regarding ‘bawdy houses.’  This disregarded the fact that not only had Canada decriminalized homosexuality in 1969, but also that other patrons of so-called ‘bawdy houses,’ such as straight men hiring women as prostitutes, faced far less scrutiny or repercussions under the same laws. 

Operation Soap, though, was just the beginning.  Beginning in February, nine Edmonton detectives began acting in key roles as part of a massive surveillance endeavour.  With other personnel hidden in a neighbouring building to track the comings and goings of the patrons, the nine detectives went into the bathhouse itself, posing as clientele, and using that cover to, among other things, take photos of patrons engaged in intimate activities.  It is currently understood that all of this was sparked by a complaint from Fred Griffiths, a gay man who had never been inside the Pisces Health Spa but was nonetheless ‘disgusted’ about what happened inside its walls.  These attitudes about—among other things—anonymous sex and establishments based around sex were not altogether uncommon among other members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community and are still very much present today.

On May 30th, 1981, the Edmonton police stormed into the Pisces Health Spa, barging into private rooms and informing everyone they found that they were arrested for being ‘found-ins’ at a bawdy house.  The men were not allowed to put on clothes until they had been photographed in whatever state the police had arrested them in, then photographed again once clothed, holding up signs stating their names and other information.  This all happened as two crown prosecutors looked on—an extreme rarity at any such raid.  Fifty-six ‘found-ins’ were eventually herded in vans and police cruisers down to the courthouse and were denied any legal counsel.  At the same time, the owners of the Pisces Health Spa—Dr. Henri Toupin and Eric Stein—and John Kerr were all arrested as well. 

The media went into a frenzy almost immediately.  The names of those arrested were shown on CFRN’s (now CTV) six o’clock news, effectively outing them in an incredibly hostile time.  The two thousand-strong clientele list which had been seized in the raid, meanwhile, featured prominently and ominously in the coverage.  It was other members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, notably the Gay Alliance Towards Equality, who stepped up to offer support, advice, and information to those caught up in the raid.  Toupin, Stein, and Kerr all pleaded guilty to their charges, and unfortunately, once the first ‘found-in’ was deemed guilty in court, more soon followed.  In the end, most of those arrested pleaded guilty in turn. 

Yet, Edmonton’s 2SLGBTQIA+ community did not take this lying down.  Sick of trying to hide who they were in hopes the legal system and the court of public opinion would overlook them, they began to plot more public acts of protest, such as a demonstration at city hall and the entering of the S.S. Pisces 2, crowned with a sail in the shape of a pink triangle, to the annual Klondike Days Sourdough Raft Race.  The frustration galvanized a community which many felt had grown complacent to mistreatment from law enforcement and the public at large, and it would echo throughout the years—notably, Edmonton’s first Pride events, in the theme “Gay Pride Through Unity,” were held the following year in 1982.  Twelve years after the raids, Mayor Jan Reimer officially instituted Gay and Lesbian Pride Day, and the Edmonton Police Service released a formal statement of apology in 2021, on the fortieth anniversary of the raids.  While a true outrage, the Pisces Bathhouse Raids are always remembered as a turning point in the fight for 2SLGBTQIA+ rights not only in Edmonton, but all of Canada. 

 For a more in-depth look at the Pisces Health Spa and the raids of that fateful day, you might be interested in an article by the Edmonton City as Museum Project, posted a little before the 40th anniversary of the raids.  A link can be found here. 

The Pisces Bathhouse Raids were a critical turning point in the story of the Canadian fight for 2SLGBTQIA+ rights, and it’s a true shame they are not more widely known.  It is stories like these—and the need to share them with Canada—that is the CPHS’s most cherished goal.  On this day, we must remember to be grateful to those who fought and sacrificed for the freedoms and joy we now experience and also remember that the fight is not yet over.   

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Awareness

According to the Canadian government, approximately four percent of the Canadian population is part of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. A portion of this population identifies as panromantic or pansexual. Considering panromantic and pansexual identities have not always received the same visibility or understanding as other orientations in the community, it is important to both acknowledge and celebrate those who are panromantic and pansexual. That’s why May 24 is devoted each year to celebrating these communities as part of Panromantic and Pansexual Visibility and Awareness Day. 

For those unfamiliar with panromanticism, a panromantic orientation is one in which an individual is attracted to people of any gender romantically. More specifically, this might mean a person could be emotionally attracted to someone who identifies as male, female, gender nonbinary, or as trans. Panromantic individuals might not experience physical attraction to other people and instead often focus on emotional attractions to others regardless of gender. The term panromantic is often used by those on the asexual spectrum. 

Pansexual orientation is defined as a sexual attraction to people of any gender and is not to be confused with bisexuality. Pansexual individuals can be sexually attracted to those with any gender identity, such as trans, gender nonbinary, male, or female. Pansexual people can be attracted to people of all genders, both romantically and sexually. A few famous pansexual celebrities include Cara Delevingne, Miley Cyrus, Demi Lovato, and Brendon Urie. 

Panromantic and Pansexual Visibility and Awareness Day is critical to helping increase understanding regarding panromantic and pansexual communities and to ensuring that these communities do not face erasure, stigmatization, or harmful stereotypes and prejudice. Therefore, help celebrate the day by educating your friends, family, and community and serving as an ally and advocating to promote inclusion and acceptance of panromantic and pansexual people.

 

 

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Awareness

May 22nd was Harvey Milk’s birthday, and every year we mark that occasion by taking time to remember him.  Harvey Milk was a tireless fighter and advocate for 2SLGBTQIA+ rights in a time when Stonewall was still a fresh memory, and the results of his work still echo throughout the continuing fight for equal rights.  Milk would have turned ninety-five this year were it not for his murder, and we must continue to honour his memory for all the years to come. 

Born to a Jewish family in Woodmere, New York, in 1930, Milk by all accounts lived a very traditional life in his early years.  He joined the US Navy during the Korean War, though he was forced to accept an ‘other than honourable’ discharge in 1955, rather than a court-martial due to his identity.  He worked in insurance for a while, and was a rather staunch conservative, uncomfortable with being Gay.  It was working as an associate director with Tom O’Horgan’s theatre company—and spending time with the cast of ‘flower children,’ who we’d call hippies today—that caused his viewpoint to dramatically shift. 

Milk moved to San Francisco in the early 1970s and opened a camera shop with his partner (and future campaign manager) Scott Smith on Castro Street.  San Francisco had attracted a sizeable 2SLGBTQIA+ population ever since the end of World War II, when many Gay men who had been expelled from the military elected to stay there instead of returning to their unaccepting hometowns.  This burgeoning community attracted more Gay men in turn, and by 1969, the Kinsey Institute considered San Francisco to have the most 2SLGBTQIA+ people per capita of any major American city. 

Castro Street was the centre of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community in San Francisco, and one cannot talk about Harvey Milk’s story without also talking about the Castro.  Originally an ethnically mixed working-class neighbourhood, low prices caused by bigoted families fleeing the increased diversity of the area made it accessible to 2SLGBTQIA+ folks looking to settle down.  San Francisco, however, was by no means any more tolerant than other cities.  Oral sex was still illegal, and the current mayor, Alito, was aggressive in targeting public parks, where Gay men would meet up.  In 1971, 2800 men were arrested for ‘public sex,’ a monumental difference from the 63 arrests made in New York.   Milk would become more and more political over the years; friends remember having to prevent him from kicking the television during the broadcast of Attorney General John N. Mitchell’s continuous “I don’t recall” answers during the Watergate hearings.  Eventually, Milk’s disdain for the way things were going reached its limit, and he decided on a campaign for city supervisor.  Later, while reflecting on that decision, he would say, “I finally reached the point where I knew I had to become involved or shut up.” 

His initial reception from those established in Gay politics was less than warm, but he quickly garnered support from some owners of Gay bars who weren’t pleased with what they saw as a ‘timid’ approach to police raids from those same established figures.  He lost his first few elections, although his skill at politics quickly became evident.  Despite his inexperience, he came in 10th out of 32 candidates during the 1973 municipal election, and it’s been said that if districts had been allowed to elect their supervisors, he would have won.  Between his unsuccessful campaigns—including one for the California State Assembly—Milk worked to build coalitions at a smaller level as well.  He was one of the founders of the Castro Village Association to support 2SLGBTQIA+ businesses and organized the Castro Street Fair in 1974 to draw more customers to the area, an event that is still an annual occasion to this day. 

When the 1977 election came about, Milk had become an extremely well-known figure in not only the 2SLGBTQIA+ or the Castro communities, but across all of San Francisco—the San Francisco Chronicle even endorsed him for supervisor.  He would end up winning by 30% in that election.  Milk swept into City Hall on a massive wave of support, and he wasn’t the only newly elected official to be a newcomer.  Sworn in alongside Milk were Carol Ruth Silver, a single mother; Gordon Lau, a Chinese American; and Ella Hill Hutch, an African American woman.  Milk’s first act of his tenure was to sponsor a bill that would outlaw discrimination based on sexual orientation, which he called “the most stringent gay rights law in the country.”  It was clear to all how enthusiastic and driven Milk was as a politician, and the causes he championed were extremely varied, from dealing with a dog excrement problem plaguing the city streets to calling for more affordable childcare and free public transport.  Milk had begun to receive death threats after his run for the State Assembly, but he paid them no heed.  “If a bullet should enter my brain,” he said, “let that bullet destroy every closet door.” 

Tragically, we will never know just how much more progress Milk would have made.  On November 27th, 1978, Milk and San Francisco mayor George Moscone were assassinated by former city supervisor Dan White, who was the only vote in opposition to Milk’s 2SLGBTQIA+ rights bill that had passed earlier that year despite his claim he supported ‘the rights of all people, including gays.”  White had resigned from his position over a salary dispute but had soon after attempted to renege on his resignation.  Moscone had denied that request at first, but eventually set up a meeting with White, where he was then killed.  White killed Milk directly following his first murder, widely agreed to be an act of revenge over a perceived ‘betrayal.’ 

San Francisco’s 2SLGBTQIA+ community went into mourning.  That same day, twenty-five to forty thousand people spontaneously formed a candlelit march from Castro Street to City Hall.  All flags in California were flown at half-staff, and President Jimmy Carter expressed his condolences.  When White was found not guilty by a jury that included no 2SLGBTQIA+ folks or ethnic minorities, riots engulfed the city for several hours. 

It is impossible to detail all the ways Harvey Milk made an impact both during and after his life in a single blog post.  One undeniable thing, however, is that his courage in being open with his identity in such a hostile time did, in the end, fulfil his wish and destroy the ‘closet doors’ of many.  His nephew, Stuart Milk, who is also Gay, would eventually start the Harvey Milk Foundation, which works to advance equality all over the world—and was the driving force for the establishment of Harvey Milk Day, which was signed into law by California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger in 2009. 

Harvey Milk’s life was extremely rich, and there is no way a single post could describe everything he championed, all the forces who opposed him, and the countless social and political forces that contributed to his story and impact.  If you are interested to learn more about him and his work, there are many well-researched and detailed sources online you can learn from, and it would be very worth your time.  The decision was made when writing this article to focus on Milk’s life, rather than his famous and often sensationalized death and its aftermath, because it is his life that truly holds the most interest, and that is what Harvey Milk Day is all about.   Harvey Milk was a pioneer for 2SLGBTQIA+ rights in an incredibly hostile era, and he paved the way for countless activists and the politically minded blazing their path towards progress.  He was a true trailblazer of 2SLGBTQIA+ politics, and we must always remember to honour his legacy. 

“I cannot prevent anyone from getting angry, or mad, or frustrated. I can only hope that they’ll turn that anger and frustration and madness into something positive, so that two, three, four, five hundred will step forward, so the gay doctors will come out, the gay lawyers, the gay judges, gay bankers, gay architects … I hope that every professional gay will say ‘enough’, come forward and tell everybody, wear a sign, let the world know. Maybe that will help.”  -Harvey Milk. 

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Awareness

Social media is part of everyday life for most of us. For many 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals, it’s more than just a way to stay in touch — it can be a vital connection to community, belonging and affirmation. Especially for those living in places where acceptance isn’t guaranteed, these platforms can offer a sense of being seen.

But social media is a complicated space. Along with its benefits, it can also affect mental health in ways that are easy to overlook. This Mental Health Awareness Month, the Canadian Pride Historical Society is encouraging everyone to take a closer look at how online life shapes emotional well-being — and how to engage with it more thoughtfully.

Finding connection

One of the biggest strengths of social media is how it brings people together. Whether it’s joining a group that shares your identity, following 2SLGBTQIA+ creators who speak to your experience, or seeing stories of resilience and joy, digital spaces can offer much-needed visibility.

For those who might not have supportive communities close to home, social media can be a powerful reminder that you’re not alone.

Knowing the risks

At the same time, not every online experience is positive. Curated posts can lead to unhealthy comparisons around success, appearance or “doing enough” for the community. Constant exposure to misinformation, trolling or targeted hate can also take a toll on mental health.

It’s important to recognize when these interactions start to chip away at your sense of self. Even well-meaning spaces can sometimes leave people feeling unseen or isolated.

Protecting your well-being

There’s no need to disconnect completely to protect your mental health — but a few simple strategies can help:

  • Curate your feed. Follow accounts that make you feel supported, inspired or informed.
  • Set boundaries. Taking regular breaks or limiting screen time can help you recharge.
  • Check in with yourself. Notice how certain spaces or conversations make you feel, and adjust accordingly.
  • Reach out for support. Whether it’s a friend, a peer network or a professional, you don’t have to navigate challenges alone.

Building spaces — online and offline — where 2SLGBTQIA+ people feel safe, valued and empowered to care for their mental health is an ongoing, shared effort.

A gentle reminder

Social media can be a tool for connection, creativity and joy. But it’s okay to step back when needed. This Mental Health Awareness Month, let’s commit to making our digital spaces kinder, more inclusive and healthier for ourselves and each other.

If you’re looking for support, services like Talk Suicide Canada (1-833-456-4566) and Reach Out Crisis Line (519-433-2023)  are available 24/7.

References:

https://www.ementalhealth.ca/index.php?m=record&ID=55840

https://findahelpline.com/organizations/reach-out-crisis-line

Lesbian Visibility Day
Awareness

On April 26, 2025, celebrate Lesbian Visibility Day! This day is part of an entire week devoted to celebrating lesbians around the world, as part of Lesbian Visibility Week. Both Lesbian Visibility Day and Lesbian Visibility Week started in West Hollywood in 1990 and ran for a short two-year period. Lesbian Visibility Week was initially a week-long event, sponsored by the city of West Hollywood, California. The week-long event included an awards ceremony, workshops, and cultural programming. The event strove to provide a platform for both lesbian identities and issues, as well as to celebrate the lesbian community. The fundamental goal of Lesbian Visibility Day and Week was to raise awareness and visibility of the lesbian community.  

Although the event was relatively short-lived and only lasted for 2 years, Lesbian Visibility Day was restarted in the UK by DIVA magazine in 2008. As the popularity of the day quickly spread celebrations, programming, events, and ways to recognize the day were formally introduced around the world. As Lesbian Visibility Day gained in popularity it became clear that a single day to celebrate lesbians was becoming insufficient. Therefore, in 2020 Lesbian Visibility Week was formally reintroduced by Linda Riley, the publisher of Diva Magazine.  

When re-establishing both Lesbian Visibility Day and Week, Linda Riley stated that she wanted the achievements of a marginalized group of women to be recognized and for the significant contributions from women in the community to be celebrated. She also wanted the day to provide an opportunity for lesbians to celebrate their identities and to show solidarity with queer and non-binary sapphics and women.  

So, this April 26, help celebrate Lesbian Visibility Day by attending virtual events that are hosted throughout the world or find a local event to celebrate. Also, celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week and consider ways to get involved and help advocate for the lesbian community. 

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Awareness

April 6th is International Asexuality Day, a time for us all to come together to recognize the beauty and vibrancy of the Asexual community, uplift Asexual voices, and raise awareness of the many challenges Asexual people face due to living as themselves.  Asexuals have always been an inextricable facet of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and we must take this day to reaffirm that fact.  

International Asexuality Day is a relatively new event in the 2SLGBTQIA+ calendar, with the first one having taken place in 2021.  The occurrence was designed as a compliment to other Ace occasions, such as Asexual Week in late October.  In contrast to events like that, International Asexuality Day specifically focuses on Ace experiences outside of the Western, Anglophone world, where most of the discussion of Ace issues has so far been focused.  In keeping with this mission, the founding of International Asexuality Day was a collaboration between organizations from around the world, and the day is thus celebrated globally.  The date of April 6th was chosen due to it not conflicting with any other significant dates around the world, although it does occasionally overlap with Autism Awareness Week—however, considering that there is a vibrant Autistic Asexual community, this might be a happy accident.  In addition, choosing April 6th also adds an Asexuality-focused date to the first half of the year, a time frame which had previously been barren. 

‘Asexual’ can be broadly defined as a person who feels little to no sexual attraction, and is most accurately seen as a spectrum or an ‘umbrella term’ that encapsulates a vast array of lived experiences.  While all Asexual folks share that common thread, there is a great diversity of ways Ace folks relate to attraction of all sorts.  Sexual attraction is simply defined as feeling a desire or ‘pull’ to engage in sexual activity with someone, but the degree to which someone experiences it doesn’t necessarily correlate with their participation in sexual activity.  Some Ace folks are ‘sex-repulsed,’ meaning any sort of sexual activity is of no interest whatsoever, while others are ‘sex-positive,’ meaning they are happy to engage in—and might even enjoy—sexual activity.  More Aces still fall somewhere in between.  An Asexual person’s enjoyment of or willingness to participate in sexual activity has absolutely no bearing on their identity—Ace people are Asexual regardless. 

Another point of importance is the fact that Asexuality and Aromanticism are not inseparably linked—although the two communities do share a lot of experiences and challenges, and tend to be close.  Aromantic Asexual folks (often called Aroaces) do exist and are a crucial, valued part of the Asexual community, but many Asexuals do feel romantic attraction and are equally important and valued to their community.  Furthermore, many Aroaces see their Asexuality as distinct from their Aromanticism, just as many Aroaces see them as linked.  Both experiences are extremely valid, and just go to show that the experience of romantic attraction—or the lack of it—does not have any bearing on the validity of an Asexual identity. 

One crucial component of International Asexuality Day is the call to raise awareness of the struggles that Asexual people face around the world.  In addition to issues such as institutionalized discrimination like laws that rule marriages invalid in the absence of consummation and horrific ‘curative’ practices forced upon Asexual individuals, the dismissal if not outright denial of Ace identity and experiences is a massive problem.  Asexuality has been called a mental illness, Asexual folks have been told they must not be able to feel any sort of love, and some people claim Asexuality does not qualify as a sexual orientation and/or that Asexuals experience straight privilege, and are not discriminated against whatsoever. This rhetoric comes from both the general population and the broader 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and it is something we must remain vigilant in noticing and calling out.  Asexual folks are a critical part of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, and we mustn’t tolerate this sort of behaviour from a community that is supposed to be safe and accepting.  In regards to the theme of International Asexuality Day in particular, there is a distinct lack of resources regarding Ace experiences outside of the Anglo-sphere and the Western world in general.  This is something that must be addressed, lest activism leave those it’s supposed to be advocating for behind. 

One thing we can do to support the Asexual community is to keep talking about Asexuality and push for greater Asexual representation all year round, as well as calling out Acephobia whenever it rears its head.  This International Asexuality Day, we must recommit ourselves to this task and ensure that we uplift Asexual voices not only today but every day. 

Global Diversity Awareness Month.
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Every April, National Diversity Month invites us to take stock of the many communities, cultures and identities that shape Canada. For the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, it’s a chance to dig deeper—past rainbow headlines and into the roots of who we are, where we’ve been and who’s still waiting to be seen. 

Canada’s queer history has never been a monolith. It’s made up of people with intersecting identities—Indigenous, Black, immigrant, disabled, trans and more—who’ve each brought their own stories and struggles to the larger fight for recognition and rights. 

Two-Spirit people, for example, held respected roles in many Indigenous nations long before colonization disrupted that balance. Their presence reminds us that gender and sexuality diversity isn’t new; what’s new is the way it’s been misunderstood, erased or boxed in by colonial systems. 

In urban centres, waves of migration brought queer people from all over the world, many seeking safety, others simply searching for belonging. In Toronto’s Church-Wellesley Village or Vancouver’s Davie Street, you’ll find communities shaped not just by pride parades, but by grassroots organizing, cultural exchange and day-to-day resilience—often led by folks on the margins. 

Yet, even today, the broader narrative doesn’t always reflect this diversity. Some voices are still sidelined, their stories underrepresented in archives, media and policy discussions. When we talk about progress, we need to ask: progress for whom? 

That’s why National Diversity Month matters. It’s not a branding exercise or a hashtag moment. It’s an opportunity to slow down and ask: who have we overlooked? Whose stories are we preserving? Who feels safe, and who’s still fighting to be heard? 

Reflection doesn’t need to be complicated. It could be as simple as learning about a lesser-known figure in 2SLGBTQIA+ history. Supporting a local group led by queer people of colour. Questioning why certain voices are consistently given the mic—and what it would look like to pass it around. 

As we move through National Diversity Month, let’s make it more than a nod. Let’s use it as a prompt—to rethink whose histories we’re holding space for and to recommit to building a future that makes room for everyone. Because diversity isn’t something we add on—it’s something we uncover, recognize and actively honour.