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Harvey Milk was one of the first openly gay individuals to be elected to public office in the United States. He confronted an onslaught of discrimination during his time running for public office. Harvey ran for the office of the San Francisco Board of Supervisors twice before finally winning on his third run in 1977. His win was significant because it gave hope to those in the GSRD community who were not used to seeing openly gay candidates successfully run for office. His election to office also brought more visibility to the gender, sexuality, and relationship diverse (GSRD) community since his win made both national and international headlines.

While serving as a San Francisco City-County Supervisor Harvey was instrumental in his commitment to the GSRD community. He successfully implemented policies that not only advocated for protecting those in the GSRD community but also fought for their rights. Harvey was also a coalition builder who worked with other marginalized communities to foster intersectional relationships and create policies that reflected the needs and priorities of those communities. Some of his most notable accomplishments in public office included sponsoring anti-discrimination bills, successfully opposing proposition six which would have led to the firing of GSRD teachers in public schools, advocating for more resources for the predominately GSRD Castro district, establishing day care centres for working mothers, and developing affordable housing.

Despite Harvey’s success while in public office, his political career was tragically cut short just a year after being elected as a San Francisco City-County Supervisor. In 1978, an irate former San Francisco City-County Supervisor shot and killed both Harvey and the San Francisco Mayor George Moscone. In the aftermath of the shooting, a candlelight vigil was held in the Castro district the evening of the shooting. Subsequently, after his death allies and community advocates also marched elsewhere around the country to honour his legacy and continue the fight for equality.

Sadly, after Harvey Milk’s death, his assassin was acquitted of murder charges and received a very lenient sentence for manslaughter that was incongruent with the sentencing typical for such charges. A weak defence was used to justify the assassin’s rationale. The killer’s defence attorney had argued that his client had eaten too much junk food on the day of the slayings and was therefore not responsible for his actions. As a result of the extremely unjust sentencing, riots broke out across the country.

Despite the miscarriage of justice in the sentencing of Harvey’s assassin, a groundswell of support to honour Harvey’s legacy continued long after his passing. To commemorate the unwavering sacrifice and significant contributions Harvey Milk made to both the GSRD community and beyond, Harvey’s May 22nd birthday was selected as the annual day to honour his legacy. Join us in celebrating the extraordinary legacy and contributions of Harvey Milk on May 22, 2024.

Written by: Laura H.

Sources
https://www.harveymilk.com/biography
https://milkfoundation.org/about/harvey-milk-biography
https://gsanetwork.org/resources/harvey-milk-day

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May 19th is Agender Pride Day, an occasion for us all to learn about the Agender community, uplift Agender voices, and reaffirm the inextricable and incredibly valuable place Agender people have in the GSRD community.

The Agender label falls under the Non-Binary umbrella as a distinct identity. Where Bigender folks feel connected to both ‘man’ and ‘woman,’ and Third-Gender folks feel as though their gender cannot be categorized as either, Agender people feel as though they have no gender at all. This is often described as a disconnect to the concept of gender as a whole, or sometimes as a ‘void’ where gender would often be, although experiences will always vary across a community.

Agender people might use any set or combination of pronouns, including not only they/them but also he/him or she/her, or a set of neopronouns such as xe/xem or ze/hir, even if some of those may be considered ‘gendered.’ We must make sure to remember that the pronouns someone uses are not always dependent on their gender identity. Alternate labels that tend to belong to the Agender community include Gendervoid, Genderless, Ungendered, or Nullgender.

Although the Agender experience is by no means a new concept, the first use of the term actually occurred fairly recently, on an internet forum called UseNet in 2000. A user posted the following in a discussion titled “alt.messianic”: “God is amorphous, agender, […] so image can’t be a physical or gender or sexual thing.” In fact, the idea that divinities across religions have no gender is an old and established concept, particularly among the Islamic, Sikh, and Hindu faiths. In 2005 the word once again appeared on UseNet, but this time it was used to refer to people and a lived experience. Since then, the Agender label has been adopted by people across the world, and has gained increasing recognition. It was discussed in the 2013 New York Times article “Generation LGBTQIA,” and in 2017, a judge in Oregon granted a video game designer named Patch permission to legally identify as Agender. Of course, the legality of an identity has no bearing on its validity, but it was still an important ruling for those who feel connected to the experience or label of being Agender.

The Agender flag was created in 2014 by Salem X on Tumblr. Its seven stripes each have distinct meanings: black and white represent the absence of gender, grey represents those who are semi-genderless, and green represents Non-Binary genders, chosen because it is the inverse of purple. (which is often seen as representative of a combination of male and female genders)

Agender Folks You Might Know

Although Non-Binary representation in media has made massive leaps in recent years, there is unfortunately a severe lack of explicit Agender representation. This might be because Non-Binary characters are not often given official labels for their experience, and thus, although it may not be canonically confirmed, it’s very possible that any of the non-binary characters on our screens—such as Raine Whispers (The Owl House) or Jim Jimenez (Our Flag Means Death)—might identify with the Agender experience. Also on the topic of representation, it’s worth mentioning that the vast majority of explicitly Agender representation in media comes in the form of robots, aliens, or other non-humans, something that can be hurtful, if not dehumanizing, for Agender folks. Hopefully, as representation continues to be fought for and won, this pattern will shift, and we’ll see authentic Agender representation across the spectrum of media.

In the real world, a notable Agender individual was the 18th century evangelist and anti-slavery activist known only as the Public Universal Friend. Their fascinating story is well worth a Google!

Agender Pride Day is a wonderful occasion to once again celebrate the diversity of the GSRD community, and to remind ourselves that we still have a long way to go. Across the world, Non-Binary folks are still fighting for their rights, including accurate gender markers on official ID, bathroom access, freedom from brutality and legal discrimination, and countless other crucial issues. On Agender Pride Day, we reaffirm our commitment to support and uplift Agender voices, in service of a brighter future for us all.

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Celebrate International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia on May 17, 2024. This day is often referred to and known by the acronym IDAHOBIT. It was founded in 2004 and was created to bring visibility and awareness to the discrimination and violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, intersex people, and those with diverse sexual orientations, gender identities or expressions, and sex characteristics. May 17 was chosen as the date to celebrate IDAHOBIT because it commemorates the date in which the World Health Organization decided in 1990 to declassify homosexuality as a mental disorder.

Since its inception IDAHOBIT has continued to achieve growing recognition from international, national, state, and local authorities all over the world. Many United Nations Agencies also recognize the day with special events. Currently over 130 countries around the world celebrate this day, even in 37 of the countries where same sex acts are illegal. The day is meant to have a significant annual global impact to garner visibility and support from local, national, and international leaders and agents of change to help stop the violence and discrimination faced by 2SLGBTQIA+ communities.

International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia was initially started and run by the IDAHO Committee. It is now overseen by a variety of different regional and thematic networks whose aim is to advocate for the rights of people with diverse sexual orientations, gender identities or expressions, and sex characteristics. This allows for thousands of initiatives, both on a small scale and on a large scale, to take place all over the world.

Since many different organizations and entities celebrate this day, the name of the day varies. The name of the day is not trademarked; therefore, allowing the day to be communicated in a way that reflects the distinct focuses of the organizations and entities involved in celebrating IDAHOBIT. Both celebrations and advocacy in many different forms will take place on May 14 with millions of people involved around the world.

Each year an issue that is globally focused is selected for promotion on May 14. The theme for each year is decided by a variety of stakeholders around the world. Although the annual theme is never a centralized campaign, it is intended to serve as an opportunity for reflection and a call to action. The 2024 theme this year is “together always: united in diversity.” Join us this May 14 by celebrating and honouring International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia.

Written by: Laura H.

 

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Teacher Appreciation Week celebrates the remarkable educators who devote their lives to shaping our society’s future. It’s a time to express gratitude for their tireless efforts, passion, and dedication to nurturing the minds of our children.

The Canadian Pride Historical Society is committed to enriching educational resources for teachers aiming to foster pride-related discussions in their classrooms. We’ve developed a range of materials covering significant historical events related to Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Diversity (GSRD). These resources, including lesson plans, videos, and teaching aids, are available on our website.

This week, and always, we extend a sincere thank you to all teachers for their invaluable contributions to building a brighter tomorrow. Thank you, teachers!

 

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Empowering Mental Health

May marks the commencement of Mental Health Awareness Month, serving as a pivotal moment to underscore the significance of mental well-being and its profound effects on individuals, families, and communities. In Canada, mental health stands as an escalating concern, with roughly 1 in 5 Canadians grappling with a mental illness annually. This underscores the imperative for heightened awareness and bolstered support for mental health services nationwide. 

An amalgamation of factors contributes to mental health challenges in Canada, spanning social and economic disparities, traumatic experiences, and the pervasive stigma encircling mental illness. These challenges pose formidable barriers for individuals, hindering their ability to seek assistance or access essential resources for managing their mental health.

Thankfully, numerous organizations and initiatives are dedicated to tackling these issues and enhancing mental health services across Canada. The Canadian Mental Health Association stands as a prime exemplar, furnishing education, advocacy, and assistance for individuals and families impacted by mental illness. Moreover, they diligently combat stigma and advance mental health consciousness through initiatives like Mental Health Week.

In tandem with these collective endeavours, individuals can actively prioritize their mental well-being by practicing self-care, seeking professional assistance as needed, and amplifying dialogue surrounding mental health to diminish stigma and foster awareness. Through collaborative action, we can foster a societal ethos that esteems and nurtures mental health for all Canadians.

In summation, Mental Health Awareness Month serves as a pivotal juncture for introspection regarding the state of mental health in Canada and the imperative for enhancing access to support and resources. By acknowledging the ramifications of mental illness and collectively endeavouring to erode stigma while promoting awareness, we can forge a more empathetic and supportive society for all.

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Lesbian Day of Visibility, celebrated annually on April 26th, serves as a powerful platform to recognize, and celebrate the diverse experiences and contributions of lesbian individuals worldwide. This observance emerged as a response to the need for greater visibility and representation of lesbian identities within the broader gender, sexual, and relationship diverse (GSRD) community and society at large. It stands as a reminder of the unique struggles, triumphs, and rich cultural heritage of lesbians, highlighting their resilience and ongoing quest for equality and acceptance.

On Lesbian Day of Visibility, various events, campaigns, and social media initiatives are organized to amplify lesbian voices, raise awareness about lesbian issues, and foster a sense of solidarity and pride within the lesbian community. These activities range from panel discussions and film screenings to art exhibitions and community gatherings, providing spaces for dialogue, education, and celebration. Additionally, individuals and organizations often use this day to advocate for policies and initiatives that promote lesbian rights and inclusivity in areas such as healthcare, education, employment, and representation in media and politics.

Beyond its immediate impact, Lesbian Day of Visibility holds profound significance in challenging stereotypes, combating discrimination, and fostering greater understanding and acceptance of lesbian identities within society. By centring the experiences and voices of lesbians, this day contributes to a more inclusive and equitable world where all individuals are free to express their identities and love without fear of prejudice or discrimination. Ultimately, Lesbian Day of Visibility serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of representation, visibility, and solidarity in the ongoing fight for GSRD rights and equality.

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To delve into a historical event from over two decades ago, let’s rewind to February 2000. Following the Supreme Court’s ruling in May 1999, the Liberal Party introduced Bill C-23, known as the Modernization of Benefits and Obligations Act. This legislation aimed to afford same-sex partners who had cohabited for over a year the same legal rights and responsibilities as common-law partners.

At the heart of this initiative was the landmark “M v. H” case, featuring two women from Toronto who had shared a life for over a decade. “M” initiated a spousal support claim against “H” after their separation in 1992, invoking Ontario’s Family Law Act. However, the Act defined “spouse” strictly as a union between a man and a woman cohabiting for a minimum of three years, excluding same-sex partnerships. The court, invoking the Charter of Rights and Freedoms, ruled to replace “a man and woman” with “two persons.”

Bill C-23 received parliamentary approval on April 11, with a decisive vote of 174 to 72. The law extended to same-sex common-law couples the same social and financial benefits enjoyed by heterosexual couples. It impacted 68 federal statutes, spanning areas such as tax deductions, bankruptcy laws, pension entitlements, and provisions within the Criminal Code. However, while the definition of “common-law relationship” was broadened to encompass same-sex partnerships, the terms “marriage” and “spouse” remained unaltered.

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International Children’s Book Day was started in 1967 around Hans Christian Anderson’s birthday to encourage a love of reading amongst children all over the world. This annual tradition is celebrated globally and is meant to highlight children’s books. Celebrate International Children’s Book Day on April 2, 2023 by selecting affirming books from the alphabetized list below that is categorized by grade levels. These selections and links on where to buy them are also listed in the Education Resources section of our website.  

Kindergarten to Grade 4

“47,000 Beads” by Koja Adeyoha & Angel Adeyoha

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 6-8) • Theme: Indigenous

Peyton loves to dance, and especially at Pow Wow, but her Auntie notices that she’s been dancing less and less. When Peyton shares that she isn’t comfortable wearing a dress anymore, Auntie Eyota asks some friends for help to get Peyton what she needs.

“Families” by Kerry McCluskey & Jesse Unaapik Mike

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 6-8) • Theme: Indigenous

Talittuq is excited to start his first day of grade two. He is looking forward to the new school year, but as he meets his friends again for the first time after summer vacation, he notices that a lot of his friends’ families are very different from his own. Some have one mom and one dad, and some have only one mom. Some kids live with their grandparents. Some live with two dads or two moms. As Talittuq hears about all the fun his friends have had with their families, he learns that families come in many different shapes and sizes, and what holds them all together is love!

“It’s Okay to be a Unicorn” by Jason Tharp

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 3-6) • Theme: Gender

Cornelius J. Sparklesteed is known among all the other horses in Hoofington for his beautiful and creative handmade hats. But Cornelius is hiding a secret under his own tall, pointy hat: He’s really a unicorn. Hoofington is a friendly place, but its horses pass on lots of mean rumors about unicorns. When Cornelius is chosen to perform for this year’s Hoofapalooza, will he find the courage to show everyone his unicorniness? It’s Okay To Be A Unicorn! is an inspiring story about the rainbow magic of kindness.

“Love Makes a Family” by Sophie Beer

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 0-3) • Theme: Family

This book shows that it doesn’t matter what your family looks like, the only thing that makes a family a family is love! Each page showcases bright illustrations of diverse families doing special activities together, from baking a cake to finding a lost shoe. Your little one will love looking through the pages to see their own family reflected, and of course feel the love your family shares together.

“My Two Moms and Me” by Michael Joosten

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 0-3) • Theme: Family

This sweet board book features a diverse array of families with lesbian mothers going about their daily routines, including playdates, pool-dates, and bedtime reading. Published in 2019 with artwork by an acclaimed fashion illustrator, it’s a welcome follow-up to Heather Has Two Mommies. Don’t miss My Two Dads and Meby the same creators!

“Pink is for Boys” by Robb Pearlman

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 4-8) • Theme: Gender

Pink is for boys . . . and girls . . . and everyone! This timely and beautiful picture book rethinks and reframes the stereotypical blue/pink gender binary and empowers kids-and their grown-ups-to express themselves in every color of the rainbow. Featuring a diverse group of relatable characters, Pink Is for Boys invites and encourages girls and boys to enjoy what they love to do, whether it’s racing cars and playing baseball, or loving unicorns and dressing up. Vibrant illustrations help children learn and identify the myriad colors that surround them every day, from the orange of a popsicle, to the green of a grassy field, all the way up to the wonder of a multicolored rainbow. Parents and kids will delight in Robb Pearlman’s sweet, simple script, as well as its powerful message: life is not color-coded.

“Pride Puppy” by Robin Stevenson

Fiction Alphabet Book (Ages 3-5) • Theme: Pride and Pride Parades

A young child and their family are having a wonderful time together celebrating Pride Day—meeting up with Grandma, making new friends and eating ice cream. But then something terrible happens: their dog gets lost in the parade! Luckily, there are lots of people around to help reunite the pup with his family. This rhyming alphabet book tells a lively story, with rich, colorful illustrations that will have readers poring over every detail as they spot items starting with each of the letters of the alphabet. An affirming and inclusive book that offers a joyful glimpse of a Pride parade and the vibrant community that celebrates this day each year.

“Rainbow: A First Book of Pride” by Michael Genhart, PHD

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 2-5) • Theme: Pride Flag 

A must-have primer for young readers and a great gift for pride events and throughout the year, beautiful colors all together make a rainbow in Rainbow: A First Book of Pride. This is a sweet ode to rainbow families, and an affirming display of a parent’s love for their child and a child’s love for their parents. With bright colors and joyful families, this book celebrates LGBTQ+ pride and reveals the colorful meaning behind each rainbow stripe. Readers will celebrate the life, healing, light, nature, harmony, and spirit that the rainbows in this book will bring.

“Sewing the Rainbow: The Story of Gilbert Baker and the Rainbow Flag” by Gayle E. Pitman

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 5-7) • Theme: Pride Flag

Follow the journey of a boy from a small Kansas town who made his gray life sparkle, unfurling a rainbow of color to galvanize the gay rights movement. Includes a Reader Note that provides more in-depth discussion of the beginnings of the gay rights movement and a more detailed look into Gilbert Baker’s place in our shared history.

“The Boy and the Bindi” by Vivek Shraya

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 4-8) • Theme: Gender

A five-year-old boy becomes fascinated with his mother’s bindi, the red dot commonly worn by South Asian women to indicate the point at which creation begins and wishes to have one of his own. Rather than chastise her son, she agrees to it, and teaches him about its cultural significance, allowing the boy to discover the magic of the bindi, which in turn gives him permission to be more fully himself.

“The GayBC’s” by M.L. Webb

Fiction Alphabet Book (Ages 3-8) • Theme: GSRD (2SLGBTQ+) Terms

This alphabet book features bright illustrations and an inclusive message about the beauty of embracing one’s truest self. A playdate extravaganza transforms into a celebration of friendship, love, and identity as 4 friends sashay out of all the closets, dress up in a wardrobe fit for kings and queens, and discover the wonder of imagination. From A is for Ally to F is for Family to Q is for Queer, debut author/illustrator M. L. Webb’s playful illustrations and lively, inclusive poems feature a glossary in the back which offers opportunity for further discussion of terms and identities. The GayBCs is perfect for fans of A Is for Activist and Feminist Baby—showing kids and adults alike that every identity is worthy of being celebrated.

“This Day in June” by Gayle E. Pitman, PhD

Fiction Picture Book (Ages 5-8) • Theme: Pride and Pride Parades

In a wildly whimsical, validating, and exuberant reflection of the LGBT community, This Day In June welcomes readers to experience a pride celebration and share in a day when we are all united. Also included is a Reading Guide chock-full of facts about LGBT history and culture, as well as a Note to Parents and Caregivers with information on how to talk to children about sexual orientation and gender identity in age-appropriate ways. This Day In June is an excellent tool for teaching respect, acceptance, and understanding of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people.

Grade 5 to 8

“Middle School’s A Drag, You Better Werk!” by Greg Howard

Young Adult Fiction (Ages 10-13) • Theme: Drag

Another excellent middle grade novel from the author of The Whispers, this book follows entrepreneurial 12-year-old Mikey Pruitt as he starts his own talent agency and represents clients in the leadup to the big talent show. Among his roster is eighth-grader Julian Vasquez — drag queen name Coco Caliente — who helps Mikey see that he, too, can be openly gay at school.

“Small Town Pride” by Phil Stamper

Young Adult Fiction (Ages 8-12) • Theme: Pride

From acclaimed author Phil Stamper comes a poignant coming-of-age, contemporary middle grade debut novel about finding your place, using your voice, and the true meaning of pride. Jake is just starting to enjoy life as his school’s first openly gay kid. While his family and friends are accepting and supportive, the same can’t be said about everyone in their small town of Barton Springs, Ohio. When Jake’s dad hangs a comically large pride flag in their front yard in an overblown show of love, the mayor begins to receive complaints. A few people are even concerned the flag will lead to something truly outlandish: a pride parade. Except Jake doesn’t think that’s a ridiculous idea. Why can’t they hold a pride festival in Barton Springs? The problem is, Jake knows he’ll have to get approval from the town council, and the mayor won’t be on his side. And as Jake and his friends try to find a way to bring Pride to Barton Springs, it seems suspicious that the mayor’s son, Brett, suddenly wants to spend time with Jake. But someone that cute couldn’t possibly be in league with his mayoral mother, could he?

“The Whispers” by Greg Howard

Young Adult Fiction (Ages 9-12) • Theme: Identity

A fantastical coming-of-age story about loss, friendship, and identity. The Whispers centers around 11-year-old Riley, who believes in wish-granting fairies known as the whispers. Riley embarks on a journey with his friend Gary to find the whispers and ask for his mom to return, and maybe also for his crush Dylan to like him back.

“To Night Owl From Dogfish” by Holly Goldberg Sloan & Meg Wolitzer

Young Adult Fiction (Ages 10-13) • Theme: Family

This epistolary novel co-written by two powerhouse authors captures the budding friendship between bookish Avery Bloom and fearless Bett Devlin, whose dads fall in love and send them to sleepaway camp to get to know each other. Witty and heartwarming, To Night Owl From Dogfish subtly portrays two modern families on their way to becoming one.

Grade 9 to 12

Fiction

“Love Beyond Body, Space, and Time: An Indigenous LGBT Sci-fi Anthology and Fire Song” by Various Authors

Young Adult Fiction (Ages 14+) • Theme: Indigenous

“Love Beyond, Body, Space, and Time” is a collection of indigenous science fiction and urban fantasy focusing on LGBT and two-spirit characters. These stories range from a transgender woman trying an experimental transition medication to young lovers separated through decades and meeting far in their own future. These are stories of machines and magic, love, and self-love.

“Felix Ever After” by Kacen Callender

Young Adult Fiction (Ages 14-17) • Theme: Identity

Felix Love has never been in love—and, yes, he’s painfully aware of the irony. He desperately wants to know what it’s like and why it seems so easy for everyone but him to find someone. What’s worse is that, even though he is proud of his identity, Felix also secretly fears that he’s one marginalization too many—Black, queer, and transgender—to ever get his own happily-ever-after. When an anonymous student begins sending him transphobic messages—after publicly posting Felix’s deadname alongside images of him before he transitioned—Felix comes up with a plan for revenge. What he didn’t count on: his catfish scenario landing him in a quasi–love triangle…. But as he navigates his complicated feelings, Felix begins a journey of questioning and self-discovery that helps redefine his most important relationship: how he feels about himself. Felix Ever After is an honest and layered story about identity, falling in love, and recognizing the love you deserve.

“You Should See Me in a Crown” by Leah Johnson

Young Adult Fiction (Ages 12-18) • Theme: BIPOC

Liz Lighty has always believed she’s too black, too poor, too awkward to shine in her small, rich, prom-obsessed midwestern town. But it’s okay — Liz has a plan that will get her out of Campbell, Indiana, forever: attend the uber-elite Pennington College, play in their world-famous orchestra, and become a doctor. But when the financial aid she was counting on unexpectedly falls through, Liz’s plans come crashing down . . . until she’s reminded of her school’s scholarship for prom king and queen. There’s nothing Liz wants to do less than endure a gauntlet of social media trolls, catty competitors, and humiliating public events, but despite her devastating fear of the spotlight she’s willing to do whatever it takes to get to Pennington. The only thing that makes it halfway bearable is the new girl in school, Mack. She’s smart, funny, and just as much of an outsider as Liz. But Mack is also in the running for queen. Will falling for the competition keep Liz from her dreams . . . or make them come true?

Non-Fiction

“Gender Identity: Beyond Pronouns and Bathrooms” by Maria Cooks, Alexis Cornell

Nonfiction (Ages 12-15) • Theme: Gender Identity

An informative and project-filled book for middle graders to explore the meaning and history behind LGBTQ rights movements, including biographies of key figures in gender and gay/lesbian history, the context behind today’s transgender “bathroom wars” and dozens of activities and research ideas for perspectives and further learning. What does it mean to think of gender as being a range instead of being simply male or female? In Gender Identity: Beyond Pronouns and Bathrooms, middle school readers unpack the cultural significance of gender identity in the United States and around the world. Written using #ownvoices and with editors trained in the sensitivities of today’s gender discussions, the book is filled with interesting facts, primary sources, a range of text features, and more to engage readers.

“Gender Identity Workbook for Teens: Practical Exercises to Navigate Your Exploration, Support Your Journey, and Celebrate Who You Are” by Andrew Maxwell Triska

Nonfiction (Ages 12-16) • Theme: Gender Identity

Discover more about who you are and who you might want to become. Whether you’ve been pondering big feelings and questions about your gender, or you’re just a little curious about it, the Gender Identity Workbook for Teens is an interactive workbook that will walk you through what gender identity actually is. You’ll learn that there are endless ways to express yourself and that there’s no right or wrong way to identify.

“How to They/Them: A Visual Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns and the World of Gender Fluidity” by Stuart Getty

Nonfiction (Age Range Not Available) • Theme: GSRD (2SLGBTQ+) Terms

This charming and disarming guide unpacks all these questions and more with a fun, visual approach. From a real-deal they/them-using genderqueer writer, this book makes it humorous and easy to learn so that everyone can get it. No soap boxes or divisive comment section wars here. Sometimes funny, sometimes serious, always human, this 101 primer is about more than just bathrooms and pronouns. It’s about gender expression and the freedom to choose how to identify. While they might only be for some, that freedom is for everyone!

“It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living” by Dan Savage & Terry Miller

Nonfiction (Ages 14-17) • Theme: Coming Out

Growing up isn’t easy. Many young people face daily tormenting and bullying, and this is especially true for LGBTQ kids and teens. In response to a number of tragic suicides by LGBTQ students, syndicated columnist and author Dan Savage uploaded a video to YouTube with his partner, Terry Miller. Speaking openly about the bullying they suffered, and how they both went on to lead rewarding adult lives, their video launched the It Gets Better Project YouTube channel and initiated a worldwide phenomenon. It Gets Better is a collection of original essays and expanded testimonials written to teens from celebrities, political leaders, and everyday people, because while many LGBTQ teens can’t see a positive future for themselves, we can.

“Out North: An Archive of Queer Activism and Kinship in Canada” by Craig Jennex & Nisha Eswaran

Nonfiction (Age Range Not Available) • Theme: Queer History

Out North: An Archive of Queer Activism and Kinship in Canada is a fascinating exploration and examination of one nation’s queer history and activism, and Canada’s definitive visual guide to LGBTQ2+ movements, struggles, and achievements.

“Queer: The Ultimate LGBT Guide for Teens” by Kathy Belge, Marke Bieschke, Christian Robinson

Nonfiction (Ages 14-18) • Theme: GSRD (2SLGBTQ+) Terms

Queer is a humorous, engaging, and honest guide that helps LGBT teens come out to friends and family, navigate their new LGBT social life, figure out if a crush is also queer, and rise up against bigotry and homophobia. Also includes personal stories from the authors and sidebars on queer history.

“This Book is Gay” by Juno Dawson

Nonfiction (Age Range Not Available) Theme: GSRD (2SLGBTQ+) Terms

Inside you’ll find the answers to all the questions you ever wanted to ask: from sex to politics, hooking up to stereotypes, coming out and more. This candid, funny, and uncensored exploration of sexuality and what it’s like to grow up LGBT also includes real stories from people across the gender and sexual spectrums, not to mention hilarious illustrations.

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This post contains discussions of medical trauma, bigotry, denial of gender-affirming care, murder, suicide, depression, AIDS, and death.  Please take care of yourself and skip this post if you find any of these topics triggering. 

The week of March 18th marks the twenty-second occurrence of National LGBTQ Health Awareness Week—an occasion championed by the National Coalition for LGBTQ Health, which was founded in 2000.  This year’s theme is Vital Vibrant Voices, chosen to shine a light on the voices that advocate for and raise awareness about the many unique challenges that gender, sexuality, and relationship diverse (GSRD) people face when it comes to their personal and communal health. 

When discussing health of any sort, it is crucial to approach it from a holistic perspective.  Any complete picture of a person’s ‘health’ must consider the physical, mental, and emotional aspects of health, three interconnected areas that cannot be viewed in isolation.  All three of these areas affect GSRD people in unique ways that are often ‘brushed under the rug,’ so to speak.  There are countless issues that demand our attention, but this National LGBTQ Health Awareness Week, we’ll outline some of the most prevalent ones that the community has faced, or is still facing. 

Physical health in relation to GSRD people can immediately bring to mind any number of things.  The most ‘obvious’ might be the AIDS pandemic, which according to the World Health Organization has killed 40.4 million people across the world to date.  AIDS first came into prominence in the 1980s, surfacing primarily in Masculine GSRD communities.  Due to this, AIDS was quickly written off as a ‘gay’ disease.  Many people in power ignored the crisis at best, and outright called AIDS a ‘divine punishment’ at worst.  Either way, little to nothing was done to help as the pandemic spread, and GSRD people had to take helping into their own hands.  This explicit and institutionalised homophobia and transphobia was responsible for the deaths of countless GSRD people across decades—and others of all orientations.  Recently, with the development of PREP and strides in the creation of an HIV vaccine, things have improved immensely, but access is still an issue.  Those who cannot afford such lifesaving treatment or lack access to education on prevention are still suffering and dying—many of them part of marginalised groups and/or living in poor countries. 

Another physical health issue that has recently risen to prominence—especially in the United States and the United Kingdom—is the constant restriction of access to gender affirming care for trans, non-binary, and gender diverse people, especially minors.  Myths and conspiracies about this lifesaving treatment have spread like wildfire, and have resulted in an ever-growing slate of restrictions being passed into law.  To put it briefly; puberty blockers (one of the most common medical interventions for minors) are very safe and reversible, and are life-saving for trans, non-binary, and gender diverse kids.  Puberty blockers have been in use since the 1980s, and, although they have not yet been approved for the treatment of gender dysphoria, they were approved by the FDA in 1993 to treat instances of premature puberty.  There are, of course, side effects like almost any medication, but that should be a discussion between the patient and their doctor, like almost any other procedure.  Other procedures—like various surgeries—are almost exclusively performed on adults, and should be their own personal medical decision. 

In addition to these two prevalent challenges, GSRD people face issues in many other areas of physical health.  For instance, lack of access to affirming and inclusive sexual health education—proven to improve health across the board—is a massive challenge both in Canada and abroad.  In Canada, required teaching varies from province to province, and while guidelines tend to be reasonable and based in science, it’s impossible to be certain they are followed and taught in an empathetic, understanding way.  In addition, wait times for gender-affirming surgeries in Canada have skyrocketed thanks to both increased demand and COVID-19, and in 2022 the Ontario Medical Association reported wait times of 12 to 24 months for upper surgery, and up to 65 months for vaginoplasty.  Finally, it would be remiss to not mention the horror caused by targeted or random hate crimes, which can lead to trauma, injury or death.  These five specific areas of GSRD physical health barely scratch the surface of the inequalities at play, but in the broadest sense, considering them all provides an overview as to the current state of physical health care. 

Mental and emotional health—while often regarded as unimportant not just for GSRD people, but every person—are of equal importance of physical health, and are often intrinsically connected.  For example, a Canadian Medical Association Journal study in 2022 reported that trans and non-binary people have a risk of suicidal thoughts five times higher than the general population, and are seven point six times more likely to attempt suicide.  The Trevor Project—a wonderful organisation based in the US—reported in 2023 that 41% of GSRD youth seriously considered committing suicide in the past year, including roughly half of transgender and non-binary youth.  Bi+ folks and people of colour likewise report an increased likelihood of considering or attempting suicide.  Taking steps to lower this risk can be simple: for transgender and non-binary people, studies have indicated that puberty blockers, or even something as simple as being accepted and having loved ones use preferred names and pronouns, has a profound effect on reducing the risk of depression and suicide in youth.  An accepting home and/or circle of loved ones likewise shows incredible mental health benefits.  As draconian policies continue to be proposed and implemented—particularly in some American states—it’s likely that this massive crisis will only continue to worsen.   

Other mental health issues likewise show far more prevalence among GSRD people.  According to Rainbow Health Ontario, rates of depression, anxiety OCD, phobias, substance abuse, and self-harm are far higher than those of the general public, and GSRD people are additionally twice as likely to develop post-traumatic stress disorder.  Stigma, discrimination and bigotry, high rates of homelessness, familial rejection, forcibly changing one’s presentation to reduce risk, sexual abuse, and hate crimes all contribute to these statistics.  The most important factor in improving mental and emotional health for GSRD people is having a supportive, loving community, as well as having low internalised homophobia—which is another factor that can lead to issues in mental health.  Having a healthy relationship with GSRD culture and having a supportive environment are both key factors in reducing internalised homophobia and thus poor mental health in GSRD youth. 

Across all these areas of health, bigotry pervades.  Finding an affirming counsellor, GP, or any sort of specialist can be very challenging—especially in rural areas, where access to services can already be limited.  Two previous studies in the US reported that 89% of Lesbian and Bi+ women received a negative response when they came out to their doctor.  It’s also important to recognize that those with intersectional identities such as First Nations or POC individuals already face significant medical barriers due to racial discrimination, which adds on and intertwines with discrimination on the basis of identity.  Economic status—for example, according to the CMHA Ontario, half of gender diverse people live on less than $15 000 a year—also plays a massive role.  We must approach the issue of GSRD health by considering all of these factors that play into the inequalities the community faces, and understanding that health is not, and has never, been one size fits all. 

If you’re struggling, you can reach out to the Canadian Suicide Crisis Helpline at 9-8-8, or you can contact the folks at the Trevor Project, either on the phone at 1-866-488-7386 or by text at 678-678.   

Feb 22 Post_Blog
Awareness

In September of 2007, at Central Kings Rural High School in Nova Scotia’s Annapolis Valley, a 9th grader wore a pink shirt to his first day of school.   

If you’ve been taught in Canada’s public education system in the years since, you likely know the basics of the story that followed.  The student was threatened and bullied for his colourful apparel—a cruelty that wasn’t anything particularly remarkable in the culture of the time.  This time, however, two bystanders decided to act. 

David Shepherd, Travis Price, and a few of their friends stood up for the student against his bullies, but they didn’t stop there.  Mr. Shepherd and Mr. Price met with staff at their school the same week and swiftly began to gather support from other students through MSN Messenger and a little site called Facebook.  They purchased dozens of pink t-shirts, and when they began to hand them out on a Friday morning, they ran out in minutes.   

When the student who had been bullied walked into school one day, over one hundred students were wearing pink in solidarity with him. Mr. Price would recall that “It looked like a weight had been lifted off his shoulders.” 

The bullies saw it too, a concrete display of intolerance and disagreement with their actions.  The gesture changed the culture at Central Kings, showing students that they weren’t alone.  “Kids aren’t as intimidated to come to school,” said Mr. Price, who would fake being sick when he was younger to stay away from his own bullies. “We haven’t put a stop to it, but we put a dent in it. We said it’s okay to stand up.” 

The story might have ended there, with a heartwarming display of compassion that made a remarkable difference in a school’s culture.  Of course, things didn’t stay confined to the Annapolis Valley.  First, dozens of Halifax schools followed in Mr. Shepherd and Mr. Price’s footsteps.  Soon after, then-Nova Scotia Premier Rodney MacDonald wore a pink tie and wrote with a pink pen when he declared that the second Thursday of the school year would be thus known as Stand Up to Bullying Day.  The Globe and Mail then ran an article about the heartwarming events at Central Kings Rural High School, and things truly took off from there.   

Since 2007, Stand Up to Bullying Day has become nationally recognised as Pink Shirt Day, and has spread across the world.  It’s been recognised by the UN and is practiced in around 25 countries.  In 2022, donations poured in from 180 countries.  A particularly large movement takes place in New Zealand, where they commemorate the day on the third Friday of May and have done so since 2009. 

Despite the strides taken to raise awareness and make real change, bullying is still a massive issue across Canada, and society as a whole.  According to Public Safety Canada, 47% of parents have at least one child who has experienced bullying.  The RCMP further states that 31% of Canada’s youth have been cyberbullied—which is a form of bullying that can be extra pervasive and is a growing concern.  We must also never assume bullying is a problem only restricted to our youth: 40% of adults reported experiencing bullying at their places of work.  Pink Shirt Day has been around for close to two decades now, and it is still every bit as necessary as it was in 2007. 

Toxic masculinity still pervades through our culture today.  It’s important to note, though, that it wasn’t just the ideas on ‘manly’ colours that fuelled the initial incident at Central Kings Rural High School.  With the knowledge we have today, it might seem obvious that homophobic bigotry, and the idea of pink as a ‘gay’ colour, played a role, but even back in the distant times of the 2000s many people acknowledged this factor played a key role in what happened back then.  This includes the principal and faculty advisor for the Rainbow Club at Malvern Collegiate Institute in Toronto.  The University of Toronto likewise acknowledges that Pink Shirt Day “is an opportunity to address bullying motivated by homophobia, transphobia, and biphobia,” and has expanded into “a broader call for the elimination of all forms of bullying, discrimination, and harassment,” 

This Pink Shirt Day—and all that are to come—it’s important to recognize all the forms that bullying can take, including that which is at its core motivated by bigotry of any form. 

If you would like to support Pink Shirt Day, I’d encourage you to visit the websites of the WITS Program Foundation or the CKNW Kids Fund. Pink Shirt Day reminds us that one small act of kindness can quite literally change a person’s life, and even change the whole world.  It reminds us that together, we can create a future where no one has to feel alone, and we can all wear pink—or any other colour in the rainbow—proudly. 

Written by: Holly Mitchell

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